How do you rate?

I’m wondering how is it people can live day in and day out having ample opportunity to change their circumstances or situations and simply choose not too.  What is missing from ones mental capacity to decipher that they soon will alienate the ones who love them if they continue to live a life of chaos and destruction?

We hold on to our loved ones in hopes that one day they will open their blinded eyes and see the error of their ways but you have to question, is that morally right?  I think not.  I believe that we ourselves can become enablers thereby causing more harm than good.  Who then are we too blame for the other persons barely keeping their head above water?  Ourselves.